Have you ever noticed how there are men who don’t even seem particularly good-looking or successful yet date gorgeous women? These guys possess true confidence. And before you start googling “most effective pickup lines” or try to act funny when it’s not your style, remember that true confidence cannot be faked: It’s like women have a radar for detecting it.
Everyone has insecurities. Being truly confident is not about never feeling insecure. It’s about feeling comfortable in your own skin and not letting your insecurities prevent you from pursuing things. If the idea of approaching a woman — whether in person or on dating sites — gives you major anxiety, remember that confidence is something that can be built.
An anonymous user took to guyQ, AskMen’s Q&A platform, to ask for advice on developing the confidence needed to approach women. GuyQ users had a lot of wisdom to offer. The following no-BS tips will help you finally build the self-confidence to go talk to her.
